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That Moment She’ll Want Back

Wow…normally, I don’t even watch the entirety of any State of the Union Address as the partisanship and constant stops, starts, applause, etc. just wears on me. However, I did…

WASHINGTON, DC – FEBRUARY 04: House Speaker Rep. Nancy Pelosi (D-CA) rips up pages of the State of the Union speech after U.S. President Donald Trump finishes his State of the Union speech in the chamber of the U.S. House of Representatives on February 04, 2020 in Washington, DC. President Trump delivers his third State of the Union to the nation the night before the U.S. Senate is set to vote in his impeachment trial. (Photo by Mark Wilson/Getty Images)

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Wow...normally, I don't even watch the entirety of any State of the Union Address as the partisanship and constant stops, starts, applause, etc. just wears on me.

However, I did watch last night

And I can't decide if I'm glad I did or not.  Before I go any further.  This is a non-partisan, strictly Pro-American take.  I just want our country to look and be great place that it is at all times.

Look, I GET that we are a divided nation right now.  In fact, we are more divided than at any time in my life and honestly, I don't see it getting any better.

Look, I GET that there are things our President does that annoy many, and do much worse to others.

Look, I GET that he and the Speaker of the House of Representatives are not on each other's Christmas Card list.  It's no secret.

Look, I GET that President Trump did not shake her hand prior to the SOTU speech (he was wrong to do this, btw).

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However, when I see this...

When I see this, I GET my mother's words echoing in my ears:  "When you act like a petulant child, in response to another, you do not elevate yourself or your cause...you sink to their level."

We all have our moments where we do things we wish we could take back.  And make no mistake about it, she's gonna want this one back.  It has been denounced by even her most ardent supporters.  Unfortunately for Nancy Pelosi, she did this on the largest of stages, and her moment may prove more costly than she could have anticipated.

Look,  I GET that the President's behavior is, at times, not what I wish, but

I ALSO GET that for things to "get better," someone has to "be better."

And that "be better" goes for both sides of the aisle.

Charlie Nance is the Afternoon Drive co-host (along with his wife) of "The Charlie and Debbie Show" at WSOC, Country 1037 in Charlotte, North Carolina. The couple have been with the radio station since 2006. Charlie has won the prestigious CMA (Country Music Association) Award for Radio Personality of the Year and has been a finalist for the Country Radio Hall of Fame four times. Prior to his time in Charlotte, Charlie (along with Debbie) spent more than a decade hosting successful morning radio shows in Greenville, SC; Augusta, Ga; and Birmingham, Al. As a content creator for Country 1037, Charlie writes about dream lottery windfalls, sports, restaurants and bars, and travel experiences in North and South Carolina.