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Your cell phone can tell if you’re cheating on your significant other, only if they look through your phone. But, remember when the cell phone companies sent an itemized bill with who you called and when? So it goes without saying, that these days relationships have changed due to a nosey spouse or girlfriend. If a person wanted to cheat back in the day, all they had to do was to tell their buddy, “hey if my woman, or my man calls tell them I was with you last night”. However, with the advent of cell phones, and social media that excuse just won’t cut it in 2020.

How do you feel about your significant other being able to look through your cell phone, without your permission? If you said no,  why not? Relationships need two things, trust and security. Nothing says truth like text messages and call logs right? At the end of the day checking your spouse’s phone will never make them faithful if they are not trustworthy. It will simply make them go buy another phone and hide it from you…yep, the old burner phone! Doing all that just to find out if you’re with the right person may indicate that you are with the wrong person. Then again it could be a sign that you may not be ready for “that” relationship. If there is trust in the relationship there shouldn’t be an issue showing your spouse your phone. But then again if there’s real trust involved him or her won’t even feel the need to ask for it. Here’s another question, do you look through the trash for receipts of your significant other taking another person to dinner, or visits to that infamous strip club?

Ladies, if you have to look in the trash for receipts and peek at his phone when he’s sleep, he’s not worth it. Spend time leveling up your game and keep it moving.

First African American, one-woman syndicated radio host in the Southeast region for major broadcast networks. Over the past 23 years my passion and perseverance has lead me to reach and relate to demographics spanning, Sports stations, Country, Hip-hop, R & B, Gospel, Adult Contemporary & Top 40 radio stations. I have a unique way of setting the tone, and people feel comfortable telling their story,