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The #1 Thing 64,000 Women Want In A Romantic Relationship

I don’t know why this has been a mystery for so many centuries. It’s actually pretty simple. And yet the question remains, what do women really want? Consider the mystery…

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I don't know why this has been a mystery for so many centuries. It's actually pretty simple. And yet the question remains, what do women really want? Consider the mystery over. Here is the #1 thing 64,000 women want in a romantic relationship. At least according to a survey.

The #1 Thing 64,000 Women Want In A Romantic Relationship

In a survey published in the New York Post, 64,000 women were polled in 180 countries. They were asked about their ideal match from religion to political preferences. The survey primarily asked young women. Nearly 41,000 of them were ages 18-24, the 25-29 age group is the second biggest. Under 5,000 women were under 50.

It's Really So Simple

So, here is the big reveal and it is so simple. You may be thinking to yourself, wow why didn't I think of that. The survey says the #1 thing 64,000 women want in a romantic relationship is, kindness! Almost 90% of all the women surveyed ranked kindness as the number 1 thing women want in a romantic relationship. Other things that women want in a romantic relationship include intelligence. It" received about 72% of the vote; level of education had 64.5%; and rounding out the Top 5 is confidence, with a little over 60%." That is according to our source the New York Post.

As Tim McGraw Says, Always Be Humble and Kind

Notice looks did not make the top of the list. Now let's be honest you must be attracted to someone in order to know if they are kind or not. But kindness could be the thing that attracts in and of itself. Women also say they prefer average body types over the overly muscular. Looking at you Dad bod types! It's more than OK.

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Having a little money doesn't exactly hurt your chances IF you are also kind. The United States was among the top 5 in the nation to rank financial security as very important. 60% of women surveyed said so.. When it comes to a romantic relationship women also like an educated person and one that is supportive. To learn more about what women want in a romantic relationship, get all the details from the New York Post right here.


Five Romantic Country Love Songs

Music is full of love songs, and country music is no exception. Just last week, Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani released their latest love song, "Purple Irises." The song was recorded in Nashville at Smokestack Studios and was produced by Blake's producer, Scott Hendricks.

Blake said of the new song, "We love this song so much. It's a song Gwen wrote with a couple of friends of hers, and I fell in love with it the first time I heard it. She knew there was something different about it and asked me to come in and sing with her. My longtime producer, Scott Hendricks, produced it, and Gwen's been wanting to work with him for a long time now, and it's turned into this really cool and different song that can live anywhere."

Stefani added, "Purple Irises is a song that comes from the idea that when you plant something, you are planting hope and watching love grow. Weathering all the different seasons of growth. We are in this together; we planted the seeds together and are growing together."

Every country artist in their career at some point has released a song about love gone wrong, falling in love, or just love in general.

It doesn't hurt that a handful of country stars and their spouses sing love songs to each other, like Tim and Faith, Kane and Katelyn, and Blake and Gwen.

So many songs are sung about love in country music, and any music genre that picking just five seems odd. Not to mention that every person has their own version of love and so their own version of the best love songs.

We take a crack at it this Valentine's Day to celebrate love and what we believe are five amazing love songs in country music.

"It's Your Love" - Tim McGraw and Faith Hill (1997)

While this song is more than twenty-five years old, this Tim and Faith classic never gets old. This was recorded about one year after they got married and you can hear the love.

This amazing love song became the first duet by a married couple to top the country chart since Nielsen began tracking songs in 1990. There was not another single that would top the chart again until almost 26 years later, when Kane and Katelyn Brown's "Thank God" topped the chart in February 2023.

In the music video, you can clearly see that Faith is expecting the couple's first child, Gracie.

"Nobody But You"- Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani (2019)

This is another song that topped the country charts sung by a not-yet-married couple in love. They, of course, married in 2021. Blake described the song as "honest" and related it to his relationship with Gwen. He said when it was released of when he first heard the song, "Oh my god, I gotta cut this song. This song's incredible." Shelton added, "The thing that I think that I'm blown away with Gwen is just how hard she works when she gets into the studio. She's not willing to take anything less than greatness... and she's willing to put in the work."

The romantic music video for "Nobody But You" has been viewed over 93 million times on YouTube.

"Thank God" - Kane and Katelyn Brown (2022)

This song will go down as one of country music's best love songs ever. Yet another married couple sings to each other how grateful they are to have one another. When the song hit number one on the charts in February of 2023, Kane wrote on his social media, "My baby got her first number 1. Thanks, country radio and fans, for blowing this one up."

The video, which won Video of the Year at the CMT Awards in 2023, was filmed in Hawaii.

"Die a Happy Man" - Thomas Rhett (2015)

A true blue love song for his wife Lauren, whom he has known since second grade. The lyrics to this love masterpiece include, "And I know that I can't ever tell you enough / That all I need in this life is your crazy love / If I never get to see the Northern Lights / Or if I never get to see the Eiffel Tower at night / Oh if all I got is your hand in my hand / Baby, I could die a happy man / A happy man, baby."

This song was so big it stayed in the number-one spot on the country charts for seventeen weeks.

The music video for the song was filmed while the couple was on vacation in Hawaii.

"Better Together" Luke Combs (2019)

Luke fell madly in love around the same time he hit big in country music and recorded his first project for Sony Nashville. Love songs seemed to pour out of him. One of his love ballads for Nicole (now his wife) was "Better Together," which sang of "a match made up in heaven." Combs performed the song in October 2020 at the Billboard Music Awards. During the performance with no audience because of COVID restrictions, he sang it accompanied solely by a piano player.

Luke also sang the song at the 55th Annual ACM Awards.


Five Romantic Country Love Songs

Music is full of love songs, and country music is no exception. Just last week, Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani released their latest love song, "Purple Irises." The song was recorded in Nashville at Smokestack Studios and was produced by Blake's producer, Scott Hendricks.

Blake said of the new song, "We love this song so much. It's a song Gwen wrote with a couple of friends of hers, and I fell in love with it the first time I heard it. She knew there was something different about it and asked me to come in and sing with her. My longtime producer, Scott Hendricks, produced it, and Gwen's been wanting to work with him for a long time now, and it's turned into this really cool and different song that can live anywhere."

Stefani added, "Purple Irises is a song that comes from the idea that when you plant something, you are planting hope and watching love grow. Weathering all the different seasons of growth. We are in this together; we planted the seeds together and are growing together."

Every country artist in their career at some point has released a song about love gone wrong, falling in love, or just love in general.

It doesn't hurt that a handful of country stars and their spouses sing love songs to each other, like Tim and Faith, Kane and Katelyn, and Blake and Gwen.

So many songs are sung about love in country music, and any music genre that picking just five seems odd. Not to mention that every person has their own version of love and so their own version of the best love songs.

We take a crack at it this Valentine's Day to celebrate love and what we believe are five amazing love songs in country music.

"It's Your Love" - Tim McGraw and Faith Hill (1997)

While this song is more than twenty-five years old, this Tim and Faith classic never gets old. This was recorded about one year after they got married and you can hear the love.

This amazing love song became the first duet by a married couple to top the country chart since Nielsen began tracking songs in 1990. There was not another single that would top the chart again until almost 26 years later, when Kane and Katelyn Brown's "Thank God" topped the chart in February 2023.

In the music video, you can clearly see that Faith is expecting the couple's first child, Gracie.

"Nobody But You"- Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani (2019)

This is another song that topped the country charts sung by a not-yet-married couple in love. They, of course, married in 2021. Blake described the song as "honest" and related it to his relationship with Gwen. He said when it was released of when he first heard the song, "Oh my god, I gotta cut this song. This song's incredible." Shelton added, "The thing that I think that I'm blown away with Gwen is just how hard she works when she gets into the studio. She's not willing to take anything less than greatness... and she's willing to put in the work."

The romantic music video for "Nobody But You" has been viewed over 93 million times on YouTube.

"Thank God" - Kane and Katelyn Brown (2022)

This song will go down as one of country music's best love songs ever. Yet another married couple sings to each other how grateful they are to have one another. When the song hit number one on the charts in February of 2023, Kane wrote on his social media, "My baby got her first number 1. Thanks, country radio and fans, for blowing this one up."

The video, which won Video of the Year at the CMT Awards in 2023, was filmed in Hawaii.

"Die a Happy Man" - Thomas Rhett (2015)

A true blue love song for his wife Lauren, whom he has known since second grade. The lyrics to this love masterpiece include, "And I know that I can't ever tell you enough / That all I need in this life is your crazy love / If I never get to see the Northern Lights / Or if I never get to see the Eiffel Tower at night / Oh if all I got is your hand in my hand / Baby, I could die a happy man / A happy man, baby."

This song was so big it stayed in the number-one spot on the country charts for seventeen weeks.

The music video for the song was filmed while the couple was on vacation in Hawaii.

"Better Together" Luke Combs (2019)

Luke fell madly in love around the same time he hit big in country music and recorded his first project for Sony Nashville. Love songs seemed to pour out of him. One of his love ballads for Nicole (now his wife) was "Better Together," which sang of "a match made up in heaven." Combs performed the song in October 2020 at the Billboard Music Awards. During the performance with no audience because of COVID restrictions, he sang it accompanied solely by a piano player.

Luke also sang the song at the 55th Annual ACM Awards.

Catherine Lane is the morning show co-host and midday host on Country 1037 in Charlotte, North Carolina. She has been with the station for the past 24 years and is a recipient of the Academy of Country Music Major Market Personality of the Year award. Catherine has been on air in both radio and television in the Queen City for 38 years. As a content creator for Country 1037, Catherine writes blogs on local events and restaurants. She also writes about great travel spots and out of the way places in the Carolinas. Anything outdoors, travel, food, animals or the many country artists from the Carolinas.